‘If You Fear The Game, Their Is No Way That You Can Win The Game.’
I have come up with another Motivation Blog for you guys. My focus is to share my experience and knowledge with you guys, who all are Freshers and want to be successful in their career and profession, (Irrespective of any Field). However they don’t know what will come up in their way when they start chasing their dreams. I cite few examples and try to tell them the most possible things, what perhaps happens with every human being, when they join an organization and work, however they feel defeated, Cheated, Out of there mind and quit because things were not going their ways.
I always tell people to change their mindset, because who all had become successful in their life, they had only one thing in common and that was sheer Confidence, nothing else. They Believed in themselves and that’s how today I have come here with four concepts, where winning the game would become significant without any distraction and you would also know the possible reasons of why people are not succeeding in their lives. So Lets start and discuss few points, which will help you to be more focused to tame your goals. Lets Start,
(a) Are you In The Game ?
There is a saying ‘If you would do the same thing, what you have been doing, then you would get the same results, what you have been getting.‘ Well, the meaning of this phrase is, ‘Most of the people often quit their Job instantly, once anything would go haywire in their professional life. They just surrender and accept that its not their game. Believe me, it is your game and you are not an outsider here. You are not the one who got stuck in this game by chance and destined to lose here. Your approach should be like Winning and Losing are just two words of no use, I would like to tell you that these two words (Winning and Losing) were coined by few Aristocrats during ancient time just to demotivate the common people and only few people have understood the concept of these words. If I explain you what Shrimad Bhagavad Gita Says – ‘Do The Work And Don’t Worry About The Results.’ In other words it means ‘You have to be in The Game and there is no Winning and Losing, Isn’t it ? If your boss rebukes you for some reason and you feel like leaving the company, then just don’t. It is a game, you have to deal with it and don’t take it personally. I have seen Egoistic people do not grow in their life and mostly people confused things with their Ego and Pride, they are two different things and they both should be handled accordingly. Wait for your time, stay in the company, prepare for the right time and attack your opponents and play the game better then them. Thus, if you are a businessmen, then even you will have to stick to the game, irrespective of any field, even if it seems like a doom day. In conclusion, being in the game is what matters.
(b) What Defeats Us ?
I had met with lot of people in my life and trust me if someone had quit, they lived their whole life in a guilt of quitting. I am telling you with experience, whenever I had sat with anyone, who had quit their Job/Business and I asked them about all the possible reasons of quitting during a conversation Or If I put it in another words and say ‘What Defeated them, They merely say It was Lack Of Enthusiasm and Confidence. It means, They had lost to themselves and they were in a misconception that something had defeated them from outside, They didn’t know may be, else they would have tried one more time towards their goal. However what are those factors, which made us accept our defeat ? Well, I will share that with you and I believe it will connect with you guys. ‘We had Emperors and Kings in the history of every country, Few were never defeated, Like Marathas, Rajpoots, and so on because they had never accepted there defeats. There Empire had fought continuously, they appointed Army Commanders continuously to fight their battle, stayed in the game without fail and had won the Battle in the end. That’s how don’t accept your defeat and fight continuously. You should believe that it’s your task and take it as a challenge, otherwise you would not be here in the first place. I recommend you to try different approach and plan your strategies to win the battle, Thus change your behavior towards your goal, have some new and Positive Ideas to get some positive results and lets not feel defeated and walk out of every situation with pride. I believe you can.
(c) Second Opinion
Well, Socialization is the most important tool in today’s time to get a second opinion from others, when you don’t know about the solution to any particular situation that you are in. You don’t have to come out and expose yourself, however ask someone who is experienced and if you feel hesitated then ask in a way, like you are asking for your friend and not for you. Thus, If you are courageous, Their is no harm in looking for the guidance and for a second opinion, as “Every King had an advisor, Every Writer had an Editor, Every Magician Had a Helper and so on”. Guidance will help you to predict the end results of one particular action and can give you predictable results. Well, nothing is 100%, everyone needs an advise at some point, there is no harm in asking your superiors, learning from your juniors, however if you don’t want to expose yourself then you may do it secretly, However I would recommend to all Freshers, to read case studies Or have someone experienced nearby, to take some positive advise. (Their is no compulsion to implement somebody’s advise, Where advise is just a discussion on a particular topic to see how that issue could be settled.) It worked for me many times and I am sure It will work out for you too.
(d) Don’t Be Emotional
Be Practical, Logical and Emotionally strong, If you want to be successful in your career or Profession. I see many decision are motivated by our emotions and not by logic. At times we tend to forgive our competitors instead of teaching them a lesson or beating them by our productivity. Our emotional decision increases their strength and weakens us. I really like Emotional people, however once you wear your Office/Business Clothes, just change your thinking process immediately and leave your emotions at your home while leaving the home for work. Just don’t pick any personal fight with anyone, however be emotionally strong and don’t be afraid of being emotionless while you are at work. An African American Philanthropist who became an extremely wealthy property owner in Philadelphia ‘John Mckee‘ once said – ‘Deal with It In An Objective Fashion, Just Don’t Get Emotional About It.’ Well I have seen hyper emotional people do not succeed in life, they just get used by others and were thrown into a ditch.
These 4 rules will help you to stick to your work and encourage you to work hard and would not let you quit your Job/Business, Until you are not succeeded.
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